No matter how suspicious you might find the neighbor who never opens their blinds, they will never be as suspicious as the neighbor who wants free reign to peek in through people’s windows.
Not to be rude but learning how to handle conflict when you’re afraid of it is a skill that must be learnt if not for your sake then for the sake of those around you and yes it sucks but you literally have to do it
If there are two people involved in a conflict and one is avoidant because they’re afraid of it and the other looses their temper easily and gets angry often, both of those people have equal issues in handling conflict healthily and both of those people need to work on how they handle it equally.
Im learning that way too many of you have no regard for your own safety or the safety of your data and also that you would be found by bailifs in a day
No but really, pro tip. If you never ever respond to your name until you know who is on the phone, then anyone chasing debts cannot confirm that you are at that number.
Caller: “hello, can I speak to [name] / am I speaking with [name]?”
You: “I’d like to know who’s calling / who am I speaking with?”
Caller “this is [caller]”
You: “why do you need to speak with [name]?”
Don’t give them ANY information about you til you know who they are and why they’re calling. Even if you’re not in any financial trouble or have any debts this is real good practice
the toilet got clogged and I couldn’t think of anything else. finally I felt relief
now thinking back to this moment. Sufjan Stevens plays sweetly in the back. hope he gets better soon. hope you all are well. always remember that you embody love, the same way you radiate love to all of us here in this world. you make the cold feel warm
